Don't underestimate what you say.

Way, way (way) back in my "previous" life, I waited tables. In that life, I saw LOTS of people every day. And most of them said *something*, and for most, I don't really remember what. But there are three things that have stuck with me through all the years:

1. "Smile more. It makes people wonder what you're up to." This came from an older gentleman, dining alone, and he and I had been having a nice little waitress/diner chat as he ate. At the end of his meal, he asked if he could give me some advice, and that's what he said.



2. "You're savvy." I don't know that I actually *am* savvy, but a couple who owned another restaurant in the same town, one day thought I was. Not sure why, but it makes me happy.



3. "Sheeeew-eee, baby! You our waitress?" My response was "No" and I walked away to get the manager. It was the only time I ever refused to wait on a table. I should add that I am not now, and was not then, *H-O-T*, they were probably intoxicated.

So when you're out there, talking to the waiters and waitresses, cashiers and baggers, friends and family, and everyone else you come across in your daily life, think about what you're saying. They just might remember it. And for the record, any variation of "Shew-ee, baby" is never a good idea.